Experiencing Iran as a Solo Woman Traveller
As a solo woman traveller I felt nervous as I disembarked from the plane; I have just flown into Tehran International airport from Kiev in Ukraine, and I am alone. I’m wearing a full-length kaftan and have a headscarf positioned over my hair, to blend in with all the women disembarking (they all covered their heads at the last moment before exiting the aircraft). I was expecting to be stopped, and questioned about my single traveller status, the purpose of my visit, and maybe be finger-printed. But no; there are very few people about at 01.30, and the immigration officer casts a cursory eye over my passport and visa, then waves me forward with a smile.
It was more welcoming than in UK or USA!
As I exit the arrivals hall, a beaming, tall man holds up a sign with my name on. I let out a sigh of relief. I am here, in Iran! Askar whisks me into his car and off we drive, into the dark night, passing a huge floodlit edifice that Askar informs me is the Imam Khomeini mausoleum. It looks beautifully elegant against the black night sky.
I check in to the Saina hotel, acquire the free WIFI password, and open the door to my enormous, richly decorated room. I sink into a luxuriously deep bath, and quickly retire into my huge double bed to slumber with relief that all has gone well, until 08.00. Breakfast is fresh fruit, followed by beans and mushrooms, plus scrambled eggs with tomato. I won’t starve, then. Instead of my nemesis -butter- I choose sesame spread to put on my naan bread, and it is as delicious as I expected. It is Ramadan, and I am both surprised and delighted to have such a luxurious breakfast buffet to choose from.
At 09.30 I amble into the foyer to meet my guide, and almost stop in my tracks. She is beautiful. Like a delicate flower, seated patiently on a small settee in the reception area. She is called Saba, and I learn later that she is one of Iran’s top guides. How lucky am I? We start to walk and pass a musician playing the Santour; its melodic sound soothes me as we wander on through the streets where five lanes of traffic trundle noisily past us. To cross, Saba simply holds up her arm and steps off the kerb, keeping her hand high to signal that the traffic should wind past her as she strolls casually across. And they do.
Sounds of Iran – (please click then wait a couple of minutes to hear the music)
Everyone here smiles at me as if I am a long lost, dear friend.
In the Golestan Palace I gasp at the glass mirrors reflecting every wall and ceiling: it is like being inside a diamond.
We visit the Iran National museum and the Malek museum, where I see a skull complete with its original facial skin. There follows the Jewellery museum, to admire the riches of various dynasties – including a 2.5 cm square, 180 carat rose diamond whose other half sits in London, England – and finally, a stroll through the bazaar, where I watch a group of five burka-clad women chattering as they walk. Saba informs me that only deeply religious women wear this garment these days. I ask her about an interview I read recently in which it was implied that there are not many women tour guides in Iran. She smiled and shook her head. ‘We are many,’ she said. ‘It is quite a normal employment for women.’
It was great being a solo woman traveller in Iran with an amazing guide. Saba had an extra sight for me to enjoy: the ‘Nature Bridge’, lined with flowers, where I revel in delicious scents and extensive green valley views with a 5,800 metre mountain – Iran’s highest – towering in the distance.
We grab a snack of cheese and honey with special Ramadan sweets at the national airport as Saba has warned me that the in-flight dinner will be, shall we say – average. And she is right, it is.
How to travel around Iran as a solo woman traveller
I now find myself in a different gorgeous room at the Karim Khan hotel in Shiraz, and after a deep sleep I am enjoying another sumptuous breakfast buffet. Our driver this time is Shahab – a jolly photo journalist with an irresistible smile. Askar will wait for me in Tehran to make sure I get back to the international airport safely. It turns out he is an ex-army general!
We visit the ancient baths, where a story teller used to come and sit with the men, bringing with him a painted curtain to illustrate his stories as he spoke. The men would come here in the morning, and after a few hours would stroll on to the bazaar, sated with stories to share, whilst the women would then take their place, to sit and gossip together for the rest of the afternoon.
In the garden of Karim Khan (doesn’t that sound exotic?) the scent of roses is overpowering – sweet and heady. The peace I feel is overwhelming, and I want to never leave. We visit a mosque, where tranquility oozes from its pink tiles, and then after a quick visit to the bazaar, we drive out to a wooded area for a picnic of Kalam Polo cabbage rice and Tah Chin rice cake with chicken. Delicious. Shahab has a fantastic fold-away picnic table that fits into the back of the car and seats four adults comfortably. I make a note to order one when I get home. After lunch we go back into Shiraz town to walk through Eram botanical garden and on to the poet Hafez’ tomb.
Here, I am transfixed, overwhelmed with emotion. This is one of my most moving experiences ever. The love is almost tangible, like electricity in the air, from the moment we start to climb the steps up to the tomb. In the perfect calm, tears of happiness and love flow from somewhere deep in my soul. I will never forget this place.
We refresh ourselves with tea and Ramadan biscuits inside Ali Ebn Hamze mausoleum, where a glorious amount of crystal and glass dazzles me, and a long talk with a Shi’ite cleric bores me to numbness. I had asked him to explain the difference between Shi’ites and Sunnis, and he was clearly biased towards the former. Back at the hotel I meet with the lovely Samaneh, with whom I’ve planned this tour by email over a period of many months. She gifts me an inlaid wooden penholder which will sit alongside my computer: the sublimely old and the ultra-modern.
The Journey to Persepolis
Next morning, I choose raw broccoli and cream cheese for breakfast: a ‘never-been-done-before’. I follow it with Ash e Sabzi herb soup, to fortify myself for the long drive to Persepolis. We will be on the road all day.
Approaching the site of the ancient Persian capital of which I’ve heard so much (and, being a fan of old stones, is the main motive for my visit), I am immediately impressed by the sheer size of it. I expected it to be much smaller. I have seen many pictures of visitors bringing gifts to the king, their images carved into a long wall for eternity, and they do not disappoint.
Once again, I feel stirred with wonder, as I close my eyes and imagine the crowds going about their business here some 2,500 years ago. The king would have distinguished guests -from his own kingdom and beyond- wait in a large reception hall, and would make a grand entrance, sweeping in from his own quarters, surrounded by his servants and women. The site was mainly used for ceremonies, so the steps are shallow – no one should trip over a flowing robe: that would be highly undignified.
We drive away, and on through deserted scrubland to the Necropolis and Pasargadae to see Cyrus the Great’s tomb. He was a real good guy, it seems, beloved and respected by everyone for his pursuit of justice. It was he who made the very first Declaration of Human Rights. As we step away from the tomb, a young girl approaches me shyly to ask where I am from. After a brief exchange of words, she begins to sing to me in English! Her family stand around her, smiling proudly, whilst I listen, grinning in appreciation.
the song – (please click then wait a couple of minutes to hear the song)
I am surprised when we pull into what is obviously a restaurant, where the tables are arranged beneath shade-giving trees. It’s a welcome sight after the barren landscape en route.
‘As we are travelling, we are permitted to eat during Ramadan,’ Saba explains. ’There are special travellers’ restaurants, and this is one of them.’ It is a buffet, and I opt for barley soup and a herb stew called Gotmesabzy (I think), with rice. Unfortunately, Shahab is stopped by the police once we are back on the road – for speeding. He gives a philosophical shrug and hands over the fine. After five hours of driving we pull into a roadside shack where Shahab believes he will find petrol, and Saba and I drink hot chocolate whilst he negotiates a deal.
We arrive at the Setareh hotel in Isfahan at 9.00pm after a supper of cashew nuts in the car.
By now I have my four key words for Iran: music, roses, smiles, love. Lilting music, the scent of roses, the welcoming smiles that light up whole faces, and pure love in the air at every turn. It is very enjoyable for a solo woman traveller and highly recommend it for everyone.
And yet, there is more to come!
As my last full day dawns, I have to make a call to Ukraine International Airways to enquire about my boarding pass for the return flight from Tehran tomorrow morning. Eventually I reach the right person and we can proceed with our sight-seeing. After talking on a mobile about air travel it feels like returning from a futuristic movie. I stop at a small shop to buy scarves; I like wearing delicate colours around my face, and I will wear these to protect my hair and skin from the sun when I get home to Spain.
Nagshe Jahan square means ‘A beauty carved on the face of the earth’. And it is. It is huge – photos don’t do it justice – and elegant, and filled with families, horse-drawn carriages, water fountains, and lovely flowering plants.
Yet it is what is around the square that really impresses me. For me, the Shah (or Immam) mosque- a Friday mosque and thus the most important – is unbelievable. ’Magnificent’ doesn’t cover it: it is breath taking, vast, every surface covered in delicate tiles of lilac, blue, and turquoise, representing flowers and birds. The centrepiece high up in the middle of the dome is a peacock, whose tail appears at certain stages of the day when the sun is in the right position, to cascade towards the floor. I slip into a side garden and stand, silently munching mulberries I’ve just picked from a bush, listening to the birds sing their glorious little hearts out in the stillness and tranquillity. My neck is slightly sore from casting my eyes upwards in the mosque.
Next on the itinerary is a stroll through the bazaar, and this time I buy saffron. We lunch on pomegranate, walnut and chicken with rice in another travellers’ restaurant, hidden away within the walls which surround the square. I also sample ‘gaz’, a bit like Spanish turrón, or nougat. At the bazaar gate we play a sound effect game. You face the wall and say something quietly. Your voice is carried up above your head, along and under the surface of the arch, and down the other side to your listener.
In the prayer hall of the Sheikh Lotfallah mosque – which was the private royal mosque and is said to be the most beautiful in the world – Saba and I lie down on our backs to meditate looking up at the dome. I feel like a particle in the universe of the mosque. It is indeed lovely: the symmetry of lattice window – arch – dome – repeat four times, is stunning.
At the exit I am asked by a student to complete a survey about how to attract more visitors to Iran, in which one of the options is ‘dynamiting museums’!
Our final sight to see here at Nagshe Jahan square is the Ali Qapou palace, but we stop first for a drink of fresh carrot and apple juice in another leafy, sheltered garden. We climb the spiral steps up to the roof terrace, for views of the whole city, and I pretend to be the Shah, looking down from his golden cushion to watch a polo game on the square below, or a parade, while musicians entertain him.
We drive out to Chehelsotoun palace, which reminds me a bit of the Taj Mahal. Or rather, its layout does. More glass, more paintings, and quite fascinating they are too. You can learn a lot about regal Persian life from studying the wall paintings here.
As if I hadn’t seen enough, Saba takes me next to the Armenian quarter in the Jolfa area of Isfahan. Vank cathedral is shaped like a mosque, as Armenian Christians were persecuted.
It begins to drizzle, and I cry yet again; this time at the horror of the genocide. Telegraph cables are displayed, instructing the then Governor of Aleppo to ‘exterminate the entire population of Armenians in Turkey. Those opposing the orders will not be considered Government servants. Children, women and the sick are not to be spared. The modes of extermination are not to be differentiated. Without listening to the voice of conscience remove them all and put an end to their existence.’
There is nothing to say that doesn’t choke me, so we move out into the by now pouring rain, which is just as well as it serves as good cover for my expression of horror at the irony of a message like that going to Aleppo.
My last stops are two ancient bridges: they retain their robust but elegant character and are clearly a favourite strolling place, however, the rain prevents us from taking full advantage of this. Once again, I imagine the Shah sitting in the specially constructed royal viewing room, watching his people at leisure on the river or picknicking along the banks, or perhaps watching jugglers or dancers perform. Khaju bridge – apparently Iran’s oldest – has multiple arches, and I wander towards one, at Saba’s suggestion, to hear local people singing, a group of twenty or so, just standing under the bridge in the darkness, singing to each other and in unison, young and old together. Somehow that is a fitting end to my journey, people gathering to share a simple pleasure, united, peaceful, and relaxed.
Oh, Iran, you have captured my soul like no other place in such a short time. I will continue to return as a solo woman traveller and enjoy it again.